What Got You Here, Won't Get You There by Marshall Goldsmith
and Mark Reiter
Some favourite excerpts…
More often than not, they are simple behavioral tics—bad
habits that we repeat dozens of times a day in the workplace—which can be cured
by (a) pointing them out, (b) showing the havoc they cause among the people
surrounding us, and (c) demonstrating that with a slight behavioral tweak we can
achieve a much more appealing effect.
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First, I solicit “360-degree feedback” from their
colleagues—as many as I can talk to up, down, and sideways in the chain of
command, often including family members—for a comprehensive assessment of their
strengths and weaknesses. Then I confront them with what everybody really
thinks about them. Assuming that they accept this information, agree that they
have room to improve, and commit to changing that behavior, then I show them
how to do it. I help them apologize to everyone affected by their flawed
behavior (because it’s the only way to erase the negative baggage associated
with our prior actions) and ask the same people for help in getting better. I
help them advertise their efforts to get better because you have to tell people
that you’re trying to change; they won’t notice it on their own. Then I help
them follow up religiously every month or so with their colleagues because it’s
the only honest way to find out how you’re doing and it also reminds people
that you’re still trying. As an integral part of this follow-up process, I
teach people to listen without prejudice to what their colleagues, family
members, and friends are saying—that is, listen without interrupting or
arguing. I also show them that the only proper response to whatever they hear
is gratitude. That is, I teach them how to say “Thank you” without ruining the
gesture or embellishing it. I am a huge apostle for thanking. Finally, I teach
them the miracle of feedforward, which is my “special sauce” methodology for
eliciting advice from people on what they can do to get better in the future.
It’s often humbling for these overachievers, but after 12 to 18 months they get
better—not only in their own minds but, more important, in the opinions of
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When the “do-nothings” are asked, “Why didn’t you implement
the behavioral change that you said you would?” by far the most common response
is, “I meant to, but I just didn’t have time to get to it.” In other words,
they were overcommitted. It’s not that they didn’t want to change, or didn’t
agree with the value of changing. They just ran out of hours in the day. They
thought that they would “get to it later”—and “later” never arrived.
Overcommitment can be as serious an obstacle to change as believing that you
don’t need fixing or that your flaws are part of the reason you’re successful.
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I have now made peace with the fact that I cannot make people
change. I can only help them get better at what they choose to change.
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Almost everyone I meet is successful because of doing a lot
of things right, and almost everyone I meet is successful in spite of some
behavior that defies common sense. One of my greatest challenges is helping
leaders see the difference, see that they are confusing “because of” and “in
spite of” behaviors, and avoid this “superstition trap.”
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What we’re dealing with here are challenges in interpersonal
behavior, often leadership behavior. They are the egregious everyday annoyances
that make your workplace substantially more noxious than it needs to be. They
don’t happen in a vacuum. They are transactional flaws performed by one person
against others. They are: 1. Winning too much: The need to win at all costs and
in all situations—when it matters, when it doesn’t, and when it’s totally
beside the point. 2. Adding too much value: The overwhelming desire to add our
two cents to every discussion. 3. Passing judgment: The need to rate others and
impose our standards on them. 4. Making destructive comments: The needless
sarcasms and cutting remarks that we think make us sound sharp and witty. 5.
Starting with “No,” “But,” or “However”: The overuse of these negative
qualifiers which secretly say to everyone, “I’m right. You’re wrong.” 6.
Telling the world how smart we are: The need to show people we’re smarter than
they think we are. 7. Speaking when angry: Using emotional volatility as a
management tool. 8. Negativity, or “Let me explain why that won’t work”: The
need to share our negative thoughts even when we weren’t asked. 9. Withholding
information: The refusal to share information in order to maintain an advantage
over others. 10. Failing to give proper recognition: The inability to praise
and reward. 11. Claiming credit that we don’t deserve: The most annoying way to
overestimate our contribution to any success. 12. Making excuses: The need to
reposition our annoying behavior as a permanent fixture so people excuse us for
it. 13. Clinging to the past: The need to deflect blame away from ourselves and
onto events and people from our past; a subset of blaming everyone else. 14.
Playing favorites: Failing to see that we are treating someone unfairly. 15.
Refusing to express regret: The inability to take responsibility for our
actions, admit we’re wrong, or recognize how our actions affect others. 16. Not
listening: The most passive-aggressive form of disrespect for colleagues. 17.
Failing to express gratitude: The most basic form of bad manners. 18. Punishing
the messenger: The misguided need to attack the innocent who are usually only
trying to help us. 19. Passing the buck: The need to blame everyone but
ourselves. 20. An excessive need to be “me”: Exalting our faults as virtues
simply because they’re who we are.
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Try this: For one week treat every idea that comes your way
from another person with complete neutrality. Think of yourself as a human
Switzerland. Don’t take sides. Don’t express an opinion. Don’t judge the
comment. If you find yourself constitutionally incapable of just saying “Thank
you,” make it an innocuous, “Thanks, I hadn’t considered that.” Or, “Thanks.
You’ve given me something to think about.”
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My specific challenge (and I’m not proud of this) was not
that I made nasty comments to people directly. I would do it when they weren’t
in the room. This was a problem for me as a manager. In an environment where
everyone’s preaching the value of teamwork and reaching out in the organization,
what happens to the quality of teamwork and cooperation when we stab our
coworkers in the back in front of other people? It does not go up. And I wanted
the business to succeed.
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So, how do you tone down the need to tell the world how
smart you are? The first step is recognizing our behavior. Have you ever done
this? Your assistant dashes into your office with a document that needs your
immediate attention. What your assistant doesn’t know is that you’ve already
been alerted to the situation a few minutes earlier by another colleague. What
do you do? Do you accept the document and thank your assistant, omitting the
fact that you already are up to speed on the matter? Or do you find some way to
make your assistant aware that you are privy to the information? In my
experience, this seemingly insignificant moment is a litmus test for our
excessive need to tell people how smart we are. If you can let the moment pass
with a simple “Thank you,” you’re doing fine. If you’re like most people,
though, you won’t let it go so easily. You’ll find a way to communicate that
you are a step ahead of your assistant.
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What I’d prefer to focus on are all the unintentional or
accidental ways we withhold information. We do this when we’re too busy to get
back to someone with valuable information. We do this when we forget to include
someone in our discussions or meetings. We do this when we delegate a task to
our subordinates but don’t take the time to show them exactly how we want the
task done.
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Likewise the next time you hear one of your coworkers try to
worm their way out of accepting responsibility by saying, “I’m just no good at
. . . ,” ask them, “Why not?” If we can stop excusing ourselves, we can get
better at almost anything we choose.
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But enough about what’s wrong with feedback. I’m not trying
to prove that negative feedback creates dysfunction. Feedback is very useful
for telling us “where we are.” Without feedback, I couldn’t work with my clients.
I wouldn’t know what everyone thinks my client needs to change. Likewise,
without feedback, we wouldn’t have results. We couldn’t keep score. We wouldn’t
know if we were getting better or worse. Just as salespeople need feedback on
what’s selling and leaders need feedback on how they are perceived by their
subordinates, we all need feedback to see where we are, where we need to go,
and to measure our progress.
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When I work with a coaching client, I always get
confidential feedback from many of my client’s coworkers at the beginning of
the process. The fewest I have ever interviewed is eight and the most is
thirty-one. My average is about fifteen. The number of interviewees depends
upon the company’s size and the executive’s job. Before I begin these
interviews, I involve my client in determining who should be interviewed. Each
interview lasts about an hour and focuses on the basics: What is my client
doing right, what does my client need to change, and how my (already
successful) client can get even better!
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As part of my interview process, I enlist each of my
client’s coworkers to help me out. I want them to assist, not sabotage the
change process. I let the coworker know how my process works by saying, “I’m
going to be working with my client for the next year or so. I don’t get paid if
he doesn’t get better. ‘Better’ is not defined by me. It’s not defined by my
client. ‘Better’ is defined by you and the other coworkers who will be involved
in this process.”
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I then present these coworkers with four requests. I call
them The Four Commitments. I need them to commit to: 1. Let go of the past. 2.
Tell the truth. 3. Be supportive and helpful—not cynical or negative. 4. Pick
something to improve yourself—so everyone is focused more on “improving” than
“judging.”
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First commitment: Can they let go of the past? Whatever real
or imagined sins you have committed against people in the past, they are long
past correction. You can’t do anything to erase them. So, you need to ask
people to let go of the past. This is simple, but it is not easy. Most of us
have never forgiven our mothers and fathers for not being the perfect parents.
We cannot forgive our children for not being the ideal kids. We don’t forgive
our spouse for not being the perfect partner. Quite often, we can’t forgive
ourselves for not being the perfect us. But you have to get this first
commitment. Without it, you can’t shift people’s minds away from critic toward
helper. As a friend wisely noted, “Forgiveness means letting go of the hope for
a better past!”
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Second commitment: Will they swear to tell the truth? You
don’t want to work your butt off for a year, trying to get better based on what
people have told you that you were doing wrong—and then find out that they
didn’t really mean it. That they were jiving you, that they were only saying
what they thought you wanted to hear. That’s a waste of time. I’m not naive. I
know people can be dishonest. But if you solicit—no, demand—honesty from
people, you can proceed with the confidence that you’re going in the right
direction—and that you won’t get a rude surprise at the end.
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Third commitment: Will they be supportive, without being a
cynic, critic, or judge? This is asking a lot of people, especially if they are
in a subordinate position to you. People are just as likely to suspect or
resent their superiors at work as respect and admire them. So you have to
remove any and all of their judgmental impulses from the equation. Do that and
people are much more inclined to be helpful. At some point, they realize that if
you get better, they have won something too. They get a kinder, gentler, better
boss.
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Fourth commitment: Will they pick one thing they can improve
in themselves? This is the subtlest commitment, but it only sounds like you’re
asking a lot from your colleagues. What you’re actually doing is creating
parity, even a bond, between you and the other person. Imagine if you walked
into work one day and announced that you were going on a diet. Most people
would respond to that announcement with a massive yawn. But what if you
announced your plans and also asked a colleague to help you—for example, to
help you monitor your eating habits and stay on track? Since most people like
to help their friends, you’d probably get a much more involved and sincere
response to your objective. Finally, what if you add the compelling reciprocal
twist of saying, “Now, what would you like to change in yourself? I’d like to
return the favor and help you”? If you do that, you won’t have any problem
enlisting support. Suddenly, both you and the other person have become equals:
fellow humans engaged in the same struggle to improve.
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The client not only changed for the better because he was
getting support from his coworkers, but the coworkers changed too because of
what they learned by supporting him. This is a rich and subtle dynamic, proving
that change is not a one-way street. It involves two parties: the person who’s
changing and the people who notice it.
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Stop doing that. Treat every piece of advice as a gift or a
compliment and simply say, “Thank you.” No one expects you to act on every
piece of advice. If you learn to listen—and act on the advice that makes
sense—the people around you may be thrilled.
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In soliciting feedback for yourself, the only question that
works—the only one!—must be phrased like this: “How can I do better?” Semantic
variations are permitted, such as, “What can I do to be a better partner at
home?” or, “What can I do to be a better colleague at work?” or, “What can I do
to be a better leader of this group?”
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I sometimes have clients conduct the following exercise.
When they’re in a team and starting to get bored, I ask them to pretend they’re
watching a movie with the sound off. They can’t hear what anyone is saying. It’s
an exercise in sensitizing themselves to their colleagues’ behavior. They must
ask themselves what’s going on around them. One of the first things they see is
no different than what they hear with the sound on: People are promoting
themselves. Only with this newfound sensitization, they see how people
physically maneuver and gesture to gain primacy in a group setting. They lean
forward toward the dominant authority figure. They turn away from people with
diminished power. They cut rivals off with hand and arm gestures. It’s no
different than what people are doing with the sound on except that it’s even
more obvious with the sound off.
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The action plan for leaders (and followers): If you want to
really know how your behavior is coming across with your colleagues and
clients, stop looking in the mirror and admiring yourself. Let your colleagues
hold the mirror and tell you what they see. If you don’t believe them, go home.
Pose the same question to your loved ones and friends—the people in your life
who are most likely to be agenda-free and who truly want you to succeed. We all
claim to want the truth. This is a guaranteed delivery system.
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These five examples of observed feedback are stealth
techniques to make you pay closer attention to the world around you. When you
make a list of people’s comments about you and rank them as negative or positive,
you’re tuning in the world with two new weapons: Judgment and purpose. When you
turn off the sound, you’re increasing your sensitivity to others by
counterintuitively eliminating the precious sense of hearing. When you try the
sentence completion technique, you’re using retrograde analysis—that is, seeing
the end result and then identifiying the skill you’ll need to achieve it. When
you challenge the accuracy of your self-aggrandizing remarks, you’re flipping
your world upside down—and seeing that you’re no different from anyone else.
Finally, when you check out how your behavior is working at home, you realize
not only what you need to change but why it matters so much. The logic behind
these drills is simple: If you can see your world in a new way, perhaps you can
see yourself anew as well.
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If it isn’t obvious by now, I regard apologizing as the most
magical, healing, restorative gesture human beings can make. It is the
centerpiece of my work with executives who want to get better—because without
the apology there is no recognition that mistakes have been made, there is no
announcement to the world of the intention to change, and most important there
is no emotional contract between you and the people you care about.
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Once you’re prepared to apologize, here’s the instruction
manual: You say, “I’m sorry.” You add, “I’ll try to do better in the future.”
Not absolutely necessary, but prudent in my view because when you let go of the
past, it’s nice to hint at a brighter future. And then . . . you say nothing.
Don’t explain it. Don’t complicate it. Don’t qualify it. You only risk saying
something that will dilute it.
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I tell my clients, “It’s a lot harder to change people’s
perception of your behavior than it is to change your behavior. In fact, I
calculate that you have to get 100% better in order to get 10% credit for it
from your coworkers.”
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You failed to appreciate that every successful project goes
through seven phases: The first is assessing the situation; the second is
isolating the problem; the third is formulating. But there are three more
phases before you get to the seventh, implementation. Unfortunately, a lot of
people don’t pay close attention to phases four, five, and six—the vital period
when you approach your coworkers to secure the all-important political buy-in
to your plans. In each phase you must target a different constituency. In phase
4, you woo up—to get your superiors to approve. In phase 5, you woo laterally—to
get your peers to agree. In phase 6, you woo down—to get your direct reports to
accept. These three phases are the sine qua non of getting things done. You
cannot skip or skim over them. You have to give them as much, if not more,
attention, as you do phases one, two, three, and seven. If you don’t, you may
as well be working alone in a locked room where no one sees you, hears you, or
knows you exist. That’s the guaranteed result of committing “one, two, three,
seven.”
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Basically, there are three things that all good listeners
do: They think before they speak; they listen with respect; and they’re always
gauging their response by asking themselves, “Is it worth it?” Let’s examine
each one and see if it makes us better listeners.
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The implications of “Is it worth it?” are profound—and go
beyond listening. In effect, you are taking the age-old question of
self-interest, “What’s in it for me?” one step further to ask, “What’s in it
for him?” That’s a profound consequential leap of thought. Suddenly, you’re
seeing the bigger picture.
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Ninety percent of this skill is listening, of course. And
listening requires a modicum of discipline—the discipline to concentrate. So
I’ve developed a simple exercise to test my clients’ listening skills. It’s
simple—as simple as asking people to touch their toes to establish how limber
they are. I ask them to close their eyes and count slowly to fifty with one
simple goal: They cannot let another thought intrude into their mind. They must
concentrate on maintaining the count. What could be simpler than that? Try it.
Incredibly, more than half my clients can’t do it. Somewhere around twenty or
thirty, nagging thoughts invade their brain. They think about a problem at
work, or their kids, or how much they ate for dinner the night before. This may
sound like a concentration test, but it’s really a listening exercise. After
all, if you can’t listen to yourself (someone you presumably like and respect)
as you count to fifty, how will you ever be able to listen to another person?
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That’s what this fifty-count exercise achieves. It exposes
how easily distracted we can be when we’re not talking. But it also helps us
develop our concentration muscles—our ability to maintain focus. Do this
exercise regularly and you’ll soon be counting to 50 without interrupting
yourself. This newfound power of concentration will make you a better listener.
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Put this book down and make your next interpersonal
encounter—whether it’s with your spouse or a colleague or a stranger—an
exercise in making the other person feel like a million bucks. Try to employ
the tiny tactics we’ve outlined here. • Listen. • Don’t
interrupt. • Don’t finish the other person’s sentences.
• Don’t say “I knew that.” • Don’t even agree with the
other person (even if he praises you, just say, “Thank you”).
• Don’t use the words “no,” “but,” and “however.” • Don’t
be distracted. Don’t let your eyes or attention wander elsewhere while the
other person is talking. • Maintain your end of the dialogue by
asking intelligent questions that (a) show you’re paying attention, (b) move
the conversation forward, and (c) require the other person to talk (while you
listen). • Eliminate any striving to impress the other person with
how smart or funny you are. Your only aim is to let the other person feel that
he or she is accomplishing that.
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If you can do that, you’ll uncover a glaring paradox: The
more you subsume your desire to shine, the more you will shine in the other
person’s eyes.
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No matter how far along you are in life, think about your
career. Who are the people most responsible for your success? Write down the
first 25 names that come to mind. Ask yourself, “Have I ever told them how
grateful I am for their help?” If you’re like the rest of us, you probably have
fallen short in this area. Before you do anything else (including moving on to
the next chapter of this book) write each of these people a thank you note.
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The process is a lot like physical exercise. Imagine having
out-of-shape people sit in a room and listen to a speech on the importance of
exercising, then watch some tapes on how to exercise, and perhaps then spend a
few minutes simulating the act of exercising. Would you be surprised if all the
people in the room were still unfit a year later? The source of physical
fitness is not understanding the theory of working out. It is engaging in
regular exercise. Well, that pretty much sums up the value of executive
development without follow-up. Nobody ever changed for the better by going to a
training session. They got better by doing what they learned in the program.
And that “doing,” by definition, involves follow-up.
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For example, you say, I want to be a better listener. Would
you suggest two ideas that I can implement in the future that will help me
become a better listener? The other person suggests, First, focus all your
attention on the other person. Get in a physical position, the “listening
position,” such as sitting on the edge of your seat or leaning forward toward
the individual. Second, don’t interrupt, no matter how much you disagree with
what you’re hearing. These two ideas represent feedforward. 4. Listen
attentively to the suggestions. Take notes if you like. Your only ground rule:
You are not allowed to judge, rate, or critique the suggestions in any way. You
can’t even say something positive, such as, “That’s a good idea.” The only
response you’re permitted is, Thank you.
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David’s problem wasn’t that he ignored what people told him.
As CFO, he knew the results better than anyone. David’s problem was that he
wasn’t very good at “spinning” the media. That’s not a behavioral problem. It’s
a skill problem. David needed a coach all right—a media coach. But he didn’t
need me.
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Or, “No matter how terrific your idea and how thoroughly
you’ve thought it out, I’m going to add my two cents to it in order to improve
it. Your first impulse will be to listen to me and act on my suggestion. Please
don’t. Just nod your head and pretend you’re listening. If you’re as smart as I
thought you were when I hired you, you’ll ignore me and do it your way.”
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I asked the executive to imagine the feedback I would have
gotten from all his departed assistants. What would they say good and bad about
him? Then I asked him to write it down as if it were a memo to his next
prospective assistant titled “How to Handle Me.” Here’s what he wrote: I’m good
with people and even better with ideas. If clients have a problem, it’s my job
to come up with a creative solution. I’m bad at everything else. I hate
paperwork. I find it hard to perform the usual courtesies that clients expect
of a personal services business. I don’t follow up with thank you notes. I
don’t remember birthdays. I dread picking up the phone, because it’s always
someone with a problem, never someone calling to say that a huge check is on
its way to me or that I’ve won the lottery. You need to know this about me. I
have a pretty good idea how the business is doing, but I don’t like budgets and
expense reports and projections. People think I’m an unmade bed as a manager,
and they’re right. I’m not bragging or being self-deprecating. It’s the truth.
On the personal side, I’m a decent, polite human being. I’ll never yell at you.
When things are going well and we’ve pulled off a few miracles in a row, I
begin to think I’m one of the funniest, most charming people on earth. You may
find my humor caustic at these times. Please don’t take it personally. Better
yet, tell me I’m out of line. I have a relaxed laissez-faire personality, and
the more hectic things get, the calmer I get. That’s my peculiar reflex to
pressure. Don’t misinterpret this cool demeanor to mean that I don’t care. I
care a lot. I only expect one thing of you: I want you to do as much of my job
as you can handle. The less I have to do the better. Do that and we will
succeed magnificently together.
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Making the staff less dependent on her, I said, was a good
thing. But they still needed leadership. They still needed to be re-directed. I
had her arrange discussions with each of her direct reports—to discuss two
things: One, I wanted her to ask each of them, “Let’s look at your
responsibilities. Are there areas where you think I need to be more involved
and less involved?” She was making them define the areas where they could
legitimately ask for face time with her—and areas where it was not legitimate.
In effect, she was delegating more responsibility to them, but in a generous
and empowering way. She was allowing them to determine how much responsibility
they could take. Two, I wanted her to say, “Now let’s look at my job. Do you
ever see me doing things that a person at my level shouldn’t be doing, such as
getting involved in details that are too minor to worry about?” She was forcing
them to come up with ideas for how she could become more disengaged. In effect,
she was letting them help her get home by 6:30. What better gift can a leader
present to his or her troops? And vice versa.
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I conducted a research project for Accenture involving more
than 200 high-potential leaders from 120 companies around the world. Each
company could nominate only two future leaders, the very brightest of its young
stars. These are the kinds of people who could jump at a moment’s notice to
better-paying positions elsewhere. We asked each of these young stars a simple
question: “If you stay in this company, why are you going to stay?” The three
top answers were: 1. “I am finding meaning and happiness now. The work is
exciting and I love what I am doing.” 2. “I like the people. They are my
friends. This feels like a team. It feels like a family. I could make more
money working with other people, but I don’t want to leave the people here.” 3.
“I can follow my dreams. This organization is giving me a chance to do what I
really want to do in life.” The answers were never about money. They were
always about happiness, relationships, following dreams, and meaning. When my
friend asked people on their deathbeds what was important to them, they gave
exactly the same answers as the high-potential leaders I interviewed.
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This leadership inventory was developed as part of a
research project (sponsored by Accenture) involving 200 specially selected
high-potential leaders from 120 companies around the world. Respondents are
asked to rate leaders on a five-point scale, ranging from Highly Satisfied to
Highly Dissatisfied. Global Leadership Inventory Consider your own (or this
person’s) effectiveness in the following areas. How satisfied are you with the
way he or she (or you) . . . Thinking Globally 1. Recognizes the impact of
globalization on our business 2. Demonstrates the adaptability required to
succeed in the global environment 3. Strives to gain the variety of experiences
needed to conduct global business 4. Makes decisions that incorporate global
considerations 5. Helps others understand the impact of globalization
Appreciating Diversity 6. Embraces the value of diversity in people (including
culture, race, sex, or age) 7. Effectively motivates people from different
cultures or backgrounds 8. Recognizes the value of diverse views and opinions
9. Helps others appreciate the value of diversity 10. Actively expands her/his
knowledge of other cultures (through interactions, language study, travel,
etc.) Developing Technological Savvy 11. Strives to acquire the technological
knowledge needed to succeed in tomorrow’s world 12. Successfully recruits
people with needed technological expertise 13. Effectively manages the issue of
technology to increase productivity Building Partnerships 14. Treats coworkers
as partners, not competitors 15. Unites his/her organization into an effective
team 16. Builds effective partnerships across the company 17. Discourages
destructive comments about other people or groups 18. Builds effective
alliances with other organizations 19. Creates a network of relationships that
help to get things done Sharing Leadership 20. Willingly shares leadership with
business partners 21. Defers to others when they have more expertise 22.
Strives to arrive at an outcome with others (as opposed to for others) 23.
Creates an environment where people focus on the larger good (avoids
sub-optimization or “turfism”) Creating a Shared Vision 24. Creates and
communicates a clear vision for our organization 25. Effectively involves
people in decision-making 26. Inspires people to commit to achieving the vision
27. Develops an effective strategy to achieve the vision 28. Clearly identifies
priorities Developing People 29. Consistently treats people with dignity 30.
Asks people what they need to do their work better 31. Ensures that people
receive the training they need to succeed 32. Provides effective coaching 33.
Provides developmental feedback in a timely manner 34. Provides effective
recognition for others’ achievements Empowering People 35. Builds people’s
confidence 36. Takes risks in letting others make decisions 37. Gives people
the freedom they need to do their job well 38. Trusts people enough to let go
(avoids micromanagement) Achieving Personal Mastery 39. Deeply understands
her/his own strengths and weaknesses 40. Invests in ongoing personal
development 41. Involves people who do not have strengths that he/she does not
possess 42. Demonstrates effective emotional responses in a variety of
situations 43. Demonstrates self-confidence as a leader Encouraging
Constructive Dialogue 44. Asks people what he/she can do to improve 45.
Genuinely listens to others 46. Accepts constructive feedback in a positive
manner (avoids defensiveness) 47. Strives to understand the other person’s
frame of reference 48. Encourages people to challenge the status quo
Demonstrates Integrity 49. Demonstrates honest, ethical behavior in all
interactions 50. Ensures that the highest standards for ethical behavior are
practiced throughout the organization 51. Avoids political or self-serving
behavior 52. Courageously “stands up” for what she/he believes in 53. Is a role
model for living our organization’s values (leads by example) Leading Change
54. Sees change as an opportunity, not a problem 55. Challenges the system when
change is needed 56. Thrives in ambiguous situations (demonstrates flexibility
when needed) 57. Encourages creativity and innovation in others 58. Effectively
translates creative ideas into business results Anticipating Opportunities 59.
Invests in learning about future trends 60. Effectively anticipates future
opportunities 61. Inspires people to focus on future opportunities (not just
present objectives) 62. Develops ideas to meet the needs of the new environment
Ensuring Customer Satisfaction 63. Inspires people to achieve high levels of
customer satisfaction 64. Views business processes from the ultimate customer
perspective (has an “end to end” perspective) 65. Regularly solicits input from
customers 66. Consistently delivers on commitments to customers 67. Understands
the competitive options available to her/his customers Maintaining a
Competitive Advantage 68. Communicates a positive, “can do” sense of urgency
toward getting the job done 69. Holds people accountable for their results 70.
Successfully eliminates waste and unneeded cost 71. Provides products/services
that help our company have a clear competitive advantage 72. Achieves results
that lead to long-term shareholder value Written Comments What are your
strengths? Or if you are evaluating someone, what does this person do that you
particularly appreciate? (Please list two or three specific items.) What
specifically might you do to be more effective? Or if evaluating someone, what
suggestions would you have for this person on how she or he could become even
more effective? (Please list two or three specific items).
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*I outlined the complete methodology, statistical results,
the companies involved, and my conclusions in “Leadership Is a Contact Sport:
The Follow-Up Factor in Management Development,” written with Howard Morgan, in
Strategy and Business, Fall 2004.
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